


We don’t fall in love with his potential or how cute the kids might look.
You’ve worked hard to be able to establish yourself, at least keep company with men who have done the same so you can share secrets to success and support each other in your growth.
You shouldn’t be the only person offering resources and wisdom.
We don’t fantasize about a lifestyle that a man has yet to prove he can provide.
This is not about finding a man to take care of you; you are one of My Savvy Sisters, you can easily feed and pamper yourself.
You might not be famous, but fame ties into social cues and power.
Women like powerful men and men with social influence.
“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.” He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.
“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says.
You're At Different Points in Life Often women think dating an older man is a good thing. The older guy may be already settled down while the woman in her mid-twenties might still be figuring out who she is, what she wants to do for a living, where she wants to live long-term, and more.
An age difference may be one reason you're at different points not just in life but in your relationship--sometimes older men may have already experienced the things you haven't yet done and they may not want to do it again, like kids, getting married, or moving for a job.