

Although the divorce hadn’t been finalized, her and her no ex-husband went their separate ways nearly two years ago.
Any advice would be wonderful- thanks in advance for your response!
Dear Sara, We all make judgments based on our own experience.
When I asked a mutual friend if Roslyn was dating, she informed me that although Roslyn had gone on a date or two here and there, she was just not ready. As a woman who has had the experience of dating two different men who were going through a divorce, I can unequivocally say that I’ll never date a married but separated man again.
One was simply not emotionally ready to move on, while the other informed me after five months of dating that he was going to go back and give it another shot with his wife–only for them to end up divorced anyway. So, until a man was totally free and wasn’t involved with any other women that could claim him as her husband, I stayed away.
Singledom has peaks and valleys just like a relationship does.
For what you're doing with this married man is a tough situation.
You're holding out hope for the fairy tale that he'll wake up one morning and see the error in his ways and commit to you.
Even if that does happen, are you willing to sit on your hands and wait for it to happen?
My divorce is amicable and I maintain a good relationship with my ex.
There’s no love there though, we’ve clearly moved on. I have my stuff together…own my own place, pursuing an MBA, good job, do the best for my kids, and I’m in a good place right now.